Be A Porn Star

Earlier we posted some advice we overheard:

"If you want to be the sub that everyone wants to play with, just act. Act like a porn star while you play."

We posted this because in our experience it is extremely good advice, given in a form that is easily understood. People who fuck like 'dead whales' are not considered good sex partners, and it is the same with bdsm. Submissives who play like 'dead whales' are just not interesting to play with.

This post is a bit of expanded advice. Advice on how to act, how to become the 'porn star' that people will want to play with.

The most important thing to remember that it is OK to do embarrassing things, to embarrass yourself, to degrade yourself. Everyone looks rather funny playing and having sex, don't worry about it if you think that acting hot makes you look weird. Degrading yourself fits the submissive role perfectly, so it might just as well be embraced.

That said, on to some specific advice for the hot sub in you:

If she is pounding your ass with her strap-on don't just lay there, get into it! Move your hips, push your ass to meet her pelvis, grind your hot little ass onto her dildo! Move, moan, love it and let her know that you love it.

If you are under her worshiping her ass, do a bit more than just move your tongue about, moan your pleasure, move your hips a bit, let her know that you love kissing her ass, tell her so afterwards. Thank her for being hot, for letting your lips on her hole. Make certain that she understands just how hot her ass makes you and how much you delight in having your mouth upon it.

If you are sucking her dildo don't be timid, get excited, let your passion fly. Try to deep throat it, allow yourself to gag, move, moan, let her know how much you enjoy your time on her big toy!

If you are at her cunt, embrace the privilege you are being granted. Lick, suck, do it with passion! Don't worry if your jaw gets sore, redouble your efforts. Enjoy, make sure that she enjoys your efforts. Moan, move your body! Give thanks with your words and your body language.

If she asks you to masturbate, don't just lay there like you do when you are alone, become a star! Get up on your knees, grab that rod and gyrate! Explode your passion, scream as you cum, embrace your mess and lick it up. Use the opportunity to show off your star potential and you might just get to cum more often.

If she runs a knife over your skin it might be best not to move, but communicate your feelings, your fear, your pleasure. Moan, sigh, shiver, let your eyes communicate your passion for her.

If she ties you up don't simply hold in place as she sets the ropes, close your eyes, relish the tiny sensations of the rope moving across your body. Shiver, moan, give thanks. Do all you can to let her know with your body language just how much you love bondage, just how deeply grateful you are to her for placing you within it.

If she allows you to worship her boots, don't be finicky, dive right in there. Make some noise, move your body, let all the love within you well up inside and direct it all towards that leather. Don't avoid the little spot of dirt, relish it, degrade yourself, let her see how much you love doing so!

If she wears fetish clothing for you don't be shy, let your senses experience it. Stare, sniff, enjoy. Let your lust shine through, let your lust make it known just how hot she is, just how hot her clothing is making you.

If she dresses you as a woman don't get shy about it. Embrace the inner woman, embrace the whore within. She wants you to act, to act the role of woman, get into it! Let us assure you that she wants to create a brazen slut within you, not a dried up prude, act the part she desires.

If she gives you an enema do more than just grit your teeth as you try to hold it in. Feel the water slowly invade your body, embrace the sensations, revel in them! Let her see how much you enjoy being degraded for her in this way.

If she blesses you with her piss don't just lay there as it covers your body, embrace it, rub it over your skin. Feel the sensation as it strikes you, revel in the sensation, revel in your humiliation. Let her know how much you love being covered with her piss, her scent. If you are drinking it, don't just gulp it down, recognize that it's the nectar of the goddess, treat is as such, enjoy and let her see you enjoy!

If she causes you pain, don't try to lay there stoically and tough it out. Embrace it! Give yourself to it! Feel the sensations, process them. Move, yell, scream, let her know that you are feeling every single bit of pain she is giving!

If she locks you in a cage, don't just sit there looking all depressed, explore your inner animal! Hear the locks click, thank her for clicking them! Feel the moment, feel your body, revel in your lack of freedom so that she knows you are reveling in it.

If she locks you in chastity, don't run behind her asking to cum every five minutes. Dull and predictable is no fun at all. Take her point of view into yourself. Force yourself to agree with her, agree that it would be horrible for you to cum. Embrace this view body and soul. Revel in your denial, learn to love your denial, let her know that you profoundly thank her for denying you your orgasm. Don't act disappointed when she locks your cock away, the time to act disappointed is when she finally let's it free!

If she provides you with a collar, don't just wear it, put it on with reverence and wear it with pride! Pride in the fact that out of all the men in the world she has chosen you as her slave. Let your pride in her ownership shine through for her to see.

If she punishes you accept it. Thank her for working to make you a better slave, a better servant. Make certain that she always knows how much you appreciate her efforts to improve you.

If you are cleaning her bathroom, don't just clean. Excite yourself! Get excited about being her maid! Do your best, and do it with a smile! A hum and a dance step don't hurt either! Take pride in doing a perfect job, and let her know just how much you love working to make her life easier, how much such work fulfills you.

If she gives you an order, don't just follow it out of some sense of obligation, get excited about the task! Get excited about her command, her willingness to command. Make your excited response to her order let her know how much you love her dominance.

If she washes your mouth out with soap, don't just stand there and take it, relish the punishment, excite yourself over the fact that she is working for you, working to make you a more fitting slave. Embrace your punishment, thank her for all the work she does to improve you.

If she humiliates you in public, don't shy away and try to hide. Stand up straight and tall, embrace the humiliation. Feel the physical sensations it brings, enjoy them, let them spurn your passion forward! Don't ever try to minimize your humiliation, a good submissive should help his Mistress, help her to humiliate you further. Make your own degrading comments about yourself if doing so would be helpful to her quest for your embarrassment.

If she gags you, don't fight it, don't try to limit anything. Let the drool run! Embarrass yourself for her.

If she verbally abuses you don't just kneel there and take it like a stoic. She wants to cause you pain, emotional and mental pain. Embrace it just like physical pain. Let your body language communicate that you feel it, that you are reveling in it! That even though it hurts you love it, and love her for doing it!

If she tortures your cock and balls don't just grit your teeth and try to live through the pain. Explore the pain! Explore the passion it causes! Yell, moan, move! Let her know that you feel it, feel it all. Let your body tell her how much you love it when she hurts you.

If she plugs your ass, don't walk around looking all sad and uncomfortable, embrace your open ass, be thankful that she chose your ass to open! It's a toy, play with it inside your ass, use your muscles to fuck yourself! Let your body language communicate your love of a stretched ass to her.

If she beats you, don't just hang there in your bondage, stick that ass out! Cry out! Let her know that you feel it, let her know that you love the attention! Move, make noise, revel in it! Make yourself a beating slut!

If she cuckolds you don't just become passive about it. Become an active participant in your own degradation. Let her know that you love her for taking a lover. Let her know that you love the fact that he pleasures her so much. Encourage her exploration of sexuality with others. Let her know how hot her times with her lover make you! Let cuckolding of you build your passion, let that passion explode! Let her know that one lover or one hundred lovers, you will always love her.

Embrace the porn star, be the porn star in your own mind. Act the part. Become the sub that everyone wants to play with.