A few days ago we were asked for some advice, we thought the question involved was extremely fascinating.
The wife, a dominant, has occasional masochistic fantasies, and would like to act those fantasies out from time to time with her submissive husband.
Her dilemma concerning this is two fold:
1. She wants him to do 'terrible' things to her, and act all 'dommy' while doing it, but she doesn't want him to feel dominant, or to actually take on the dominant role thereby feeling that he can play the scene to his liking. In other words, she wants him to retain a completely submissive mindset while acting the part of her dominant.
2. They have tried to do this in the past, and it just hasn't worked. In previous attempts she has become nervous about him directing the scene differently than she desires and that nervousness has kept her from being able to let go. Compounding the issue is the fact that in the past this is exactly what has happened. He has embraced the dominant mindset and tried to direct the scene which has led to it going to slightly different places, in slightly different ways then she desired.
She envisions a total bottom role for herself, with her scene, played out exactly as desired.
We thought about the question for a day, then gave the following advice:
We suggested that prior to the scene she direct her husband to make himself ready in a couple of ways. First of all, we suggested that she have him fill his ass with a large plug. We feel that the plug will serve to remind him (no matter how hot the action becomes) that she is the dominant, he the submissive. That in their relationship she is the one who does the fucking, he is the one who bends over to have his ass penetrated on her whim. We hope that the inclusion of the plug will help to maintain a submissive mindset within him.
Secondly we suggested that she have him attach an electric dog collar around his balls. Our thought there is that at any deviation from her script she simply needs to push a little button, thereby providing instant, and relatively significant negative feedback to her husband. A few good jolts should remind him of who is in service to whom, and natural pain avoidance should assure her that he does not deviate from her exact wishes no matter how dominant he is supposed to act and no matter how submissive she is acting. We hope that the inclusion of this painful device will help to keep her plan exactly on track.
We are promised to hear the results if they end up putting this advice into practice, and we are anxiously awaiting them!
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2 comments:
Once again Mistress, Your advice is well thought out and seems to be right on the mark.
Well, right on the mark as far as keeping it between Herself and husband go, but i would have thought that with Your expertise that Your advice would have been for Her to visit another Mistress and let the urge be taken care of that way. She may even be able to learn a few new things to try on Her slave to better their relationship. Since it would be with another Lady, they should both be comfortable with it. Heck, they both may want to go as a couple for such a session for a change of pace. Just a thought.
slut paul,
Ah yes, such arrangements with a professional dominatrix can work out exceptionally well. We don't think so in this specific instance though, as she is seeking zero domination, only the thin illusion of it as her own fantasy is carried out to the letter.
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